Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Cute

Jarin: "Mom, am I still cute now that I'm in Kindergarten?"

Me: "Of course you are."

Jarin: "When I was a baby, how many times did you tell me I was cute?"

Me: "Every day...a hundred times a day."

Jarin: "Now would be a good time to tell me again."

Me: "Jarin, you are the cutest 6 year old I know!"

Jarin: *smile*

***Note to self*** Don't forget to give words of affirmation to Jarin, and to each of my kids. Even though I don't think it's his #1 "love language" - it is clearly still important to all of us.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Say It Isn't So...

Because of our L O N G winter - it seems like summer just barely began. And the next thing I know...school is starting. Ask me if I'm happy about that? I have to admit that it is more peaceful around here with school in - but I feel cheated on my family time and activity time of summer vacation. But since I have little to zero control of the schools schedules - I took the kids clothes shopping, helped them pack their backpacks, and sent them out the door. Now that I have the luxury of having kids old enough to babysit - I like to take each of my kids on their own shopping date and out to lunch to some restaurant they haven't tried before. It's lots of fun for me, I hope they like it too (I think they do).

Brayden on morning number 1 of being a Freshman. Seriously??? When did this happen?!

Emilie ready to go to 5th grade.


All last year, and this summer - I have been anxious for Jarin to get to go to Kindergarten. He has a summer birthday, so he was technically old enough to go last year. After much deliberation and discussions with educators and other parents - we decided it would be best for him to wait a year. Now he's one of the older children in his grade instead of the youngest - I think that will work to his advantage. Anyways, You'd think I would be counting the hours for him to get to leave after having him home an extra year. But was not so. The day before school started, it hit me like a ton of bricks that this was my last day to have my little boy with me all day long...without school responsibilities. I didn't like it. I asked him if he would stay home with me instead of go to kindergarten. He thought and thought and asked me if he could do both cuz he couldn't decide. So I had to tell him how wonderful Kindergarten is, when really...I feel like they are robbing me of my baby! :) I know...we have to let our babies grow up - but it's not always easy. Until a certain age, then they don't grow up fast enough! ha ha.

This picture was taken while he was waiting for the right time to finally get here. He was up 2 hours early this morning, all dressed, backpack on, and ready to go!
He's waiting in line at the bus stop. It's almost time...

Woohoo!! The bus is here! Then he runs out of line, and gives each of us one last hug before turning to leave and get on the bus.

After a successful day of Kindergarten.

I only have to/get to go through this torturous day one more time of my babies going to kindergarten for the first day. I wanted to cry today - but I'm pretty sure when it's my last baby boarding that bus (3 years from now), I won't be able to hold the tears back.

God Be With You Till We Meet Again...

Ira and I had the privilege of going to the MTC with my parents to see one of the most sweetest girls on the planet. This sweetheart happens to be from Christmas Island, and we got to spend time with her when we were there. The short time we got to know her, we grew to love her. Her name is Lavendar - pronounced Lavinta. If I were to have another baby girl - that would be her name. I love it, and she couldn't have a better name sake.

Lavendar is serving her mission in Sacramento, California. She got to Utah, and is freezing cold (in our 90 Degree temps), and she's afraid of the mountains. I suppose they can be a bit intimidating.

I had to laugh at the picture below. Notice Lavenders feet - no shoes. They don't usually wear shoes on Christmas, because they don't have shoes. So she didn't like wearing shoes here, and she says they make her wobbly. So she takes them off every opportunity she can.

Till we meet again Lavender...

These two pictures are of Lavender saying, "Yes Sir...Elder Mosssaaa". The top one is at the MTC, the lower one is on the island.

This is Lavender digging up a clam - the very clam that I ate a raw piece out of it, and brought the shell home.

Crammin' in the Summer Fun

We had two weekends left to play before kids were back in school. What to do...what to do.... We just couldn't decide, because there are so many things we still wanted to do while it's warm, before kids get too wrapped up in school. So we did it all. On the first Saturday, we went 4-wheeling to Oxford Peak, then went and floated down the Bear River.
I love the view of Cache Valley from up there - and the ride up there isn't bad either. ;)
Jarin
Brayden
Floating the Bear River. I was a nervous Mama Bear again. I don't know what's gotten into me that I'm always nervous for these family activities. I've either gotten older and wiser and can make better decisions - or I'm getting panic attacks for no reason. But I was nervous with my two younger kiddos on this somewhat swift river, and even a few spots of rough water. And did I mention the waterfall? Ira had me nervous about this waterfall before we even got in the water. As it turns out, it really wasn't that big of a deal...IF you knew where to go so you didn't tip over. Hmmmm...maybe not such a good idea for a few more years - when Kamden is about 12. But now that we're all home safe and sound - it really was a fun adventure.



The second Saturday, we went to find us a nice beach at Bear Lake. Well, this tree used to be on the beach. So we found some rocks next to the road to load our Kayaks right into the water. I can't ever remember the lake being so full of water.

We even had to paddle through some of this marsh (which again, used to be way up on the beach).

20 Years

It has been 20 years... and counting, since I graduated from good 'ol Preston High School. I think there were about 120 graduates in my class. There were only about 40 of us who showed up to the reunion - which was a bit disappointing, but still lots of fun. I was really nervous to go, because Ira wasn't going to be with me (he was on the scouting trip). And my best friend in high school, and who I spent most of my time with, isn't who I married (ha ha) - so I just wasn't feeling very comfortable. However, one of my best girlfriends wasn't wanting to go, because her husband couldn't be there either. So...we went together. I was so glad I went. I loved seeing the people who came.

In Preston, for the most part - you graduate with the same kids you started out in kindergarten with. So by the end of 13 years together, we all know each other pretty well - or at least we thought we did. I loved seeing how different so many of them are now from back in the school days. I loved that we were all one big happy group, and those cliques from back in the day were no more. I love that after all these years, when we cross paths at reunions or around town, that we can call each other friend.

Lynette Turnbow (Jensen) - in the following picture - didn't graduate from Preston, but from West Side. But in about 7th grade, she and I became good friends through playing volleyball against each other. We stayed close, and became roommates at Ricks College for 2 years. Then she married a kid that I graduated with - so now I'll forever get to see her at my class reunions. Yay for us!

Three of my bestest friends. I missed my girlies who couldn't be there, but it was so fun to see these three.
Bridgett Burns (Knapp), me, Barbara Miller (Matthews), Julie Womack (Crosgrove)
Now...for the next 20 years............

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Remember When...

This post is some of my random thoughts and pictures of the last week. It has been a week of reflection in many ways. Last week I brought Brayden to Rexburg, to go to EFY. Rexburg is where Ira and I met 18 years ago. I had the intentions of going and showing Brayden around campus before leaving him for the week. As it turned out, we didn't have time for me to give him the grand tour. When our family went the next week to pick him up, we spent the night and the next day in Rexburg. Ira and I wanted to walk around campus and "reminisce" and show our kids our old stomping grounds. As we walked around campus, it was barely recognizeable - some things weren't recognizeable at all. So instead of us showing our kids around... Brayden showed us around. BYU Idaho is a beautiful campus, and in some ways - I wish I could go back to that time. (Only I would want to know everything I know now - I really don't want to relearn some of the hard lessons of life I've had to learn along the way). But 18 years ago, life seemed simpler...and I miss that simplicity.

I remember when... this kid would call me "mommy", and wouldn't want me to leave his side.
But...I had to leave him for the week (much to his total excitement and my excitement for him...mixed with a bit of emotion that he's growing up).
I Remember When... my dad would take us to Dawnata Hot Springs and play games with us in the water, while we called to my mom who was sitting on the side "Mom, watch me." Now Ira is the dad playing with the kids, and I took on the role of my mom who watched my kids million tricks in the pool.

(I'm usually in the pool with them, but since Ira was there this time...I took advantage of sitting on the side and doing what I like to do best - take pictures).

When we went to get Brayden, we stayed the night at a hotel in Rexburg and swam in the pool.

I Remember When... Ira and I would walk hand in hand across this campus in our dating days. I remember when I would walk from class to class, I would hope that I would cross paths with him. When I would happen to see him, I remember how my heart would skip a beat because I was falling in love with this red headed guy with such a soft voice and beautiful eyes.
I Remember When... it was just we two.
Now it is we six! (and the sign used to say "Ricks College")

I Remember When... these two didn't mind me dressing them alike. This particular morning, I had brought matching clothes, and Jarin had a melt down for an hour because he didn't want to be dressed like his brother. *sigh*

I Remember When... a carousel was the greatest thing E.V.E.R! It was a real treat to get to ride one of these, and I could go on them over and over again. This carousel is in a park in Rexburg, and I got dizzy even watching the kids on it - no way would I get on one now...does that mean I'm getting old??

I Remember When... I loved these water parks. Oh wait...I don't remember that - cuz they didn't have these COOL splash pad parks when I was a kid. But I'm sure I would have loved them... if only :). This splash pad is at the same park in Rexburg. We need to get us one of these parks in Smithfield!

I Remember When... Ira was still in his 30's...that seems SO long ago! Ha ha ha. We celebrated his "real" 40th birthday this week. (Remember when we had his surprise party back in June - well August is the real deal). We made it a family affair, and went to a movie and had a little party. Jarin and Ira decided he should have a "Tron" birthday party. So Jarin and I found some Tron paper cutouts online, and Whaalaa...a Tron party was formed. And as Jarin said, "We don't have THAT many birthday candles - that is too many".

I Remember When... we had the painters come paint the main part of our house one and a half years ago - and I didn't want to pay for the small bathrooms. I figured it would just take a short time to paint those two small rooms. Well...we finally got it done (well, actually, it's not done, done. I'm waiting for a couple walls to dry as I write this).


I Remember When... I would build forts out of every blanket and chair in the house. I absolutely loved it. So what can I say when my kids ask if they can build one? Of course I can't deny them the privilege of so many "adventures" when their imaginations take over.

I Remember When... I would spend summer days with my friends. These kids are best of friends, but they moved away. So when summer rolls around, we exchange kids so they can have those summer memories with their friends.


I have so many wonderful memories of my life past. I love to think back on them and "Remember When". But even more...I love to create new memories. One of my favorite quotes is from "Kung Fu Panda" when he says that today is a gift, that's why they call it the present.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

family camp

SURPRISE!!! Yes, I am writing in my blog, can you believe it? I'm sure any "followers" I once had are long gone. But my purpose for my blog has always been to keep more of a journal of my families happenings. My sister-in-law (who lives in California) reminded me that she doesn't know what's going on with our family anymore - since this was our main way of keeping each other posted on our family lives. And she told me to not try to go back and catch up - just start from now. Well Maria...I took part of your advise. I am blogging - but I couldn't help but to play a little catch up. (I didn't post as many pictures as I would have if I had stayed caught up - bad for me, lucky for you). One of my biggest pet peeves is jobs half done - and I knew I couldn't let my blog be left half done. SO...there will be many catch-up posts to follow this one. Just remember - they are for my sake - you don't have to read them all.

Last weekend we had our annual "Moser Family Camp". As always...lots of good laughs and memories. This was the first year in many years that we had all 8 kids there. We were missing some of the grandkids and a sister-in-law. They were staying home waiting for a baby to be born (what a lame excuse to miss camp! - ha ha!) This year we had mom and dad back home to run the show - it just wasn't the same last year without them.

Kam and I in the fields of wild flowers.
Brayden with his cousin Skyler
Kam with his cousins McKay and Ryan. McKay lives in California - so they don't see each other much - and they really had a great time together. Aunt Kimme brought fun activities for the kids - and they made these hats. They loved them. Thanks Kim!
I love this picture of my sister Robin and her husband Reece. She celebrated a big birthday at camp. I won't tell what birthday it was, but I will say that we had lots of black decorations, and some of the balloons read, "Over the hill". :)
This picture makes me sad. Poor Des fell into the fire. He caught himself with his hand and held his body up out of the coals. His little hand was so blistered up, and he was being so brave.
My scruffy honey. Kinda likin' the scruffiness...mmmhhhmm.

50 years

My parents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary, without any fanfare, in January while they were still on Christmas Island. I think they liked it that way - just the two of them - no attention brought their way. However, we kids couldn't let it end there. While we were all together for our family camp - we decided it would be a great opportunity to all go to the temple together and out to dinner afterwards. My sister-in-law (Lisa) was the only one of the 8 kids and 8 spouses who couldn't be there (because of the soon-to-be-born baby). Well, at the last minute, she got a plane ticket to join us for this one day.

It was such a special experience to be in the temple with all of my siblings and my parents. I hope that someday I can have the same experience with my children.

After the temple, we went to dinner at Hamiltons, and unknown to my parents - we were guided into a room full of friends and family.

I think it was safe to say that we pulled off the surprise. And with 50 people in attendance, that is a pretty big deal that they didn't even have a clue. The funny part is that once they realized the party was for them - they still didn't know why they were having a party. Their friends (who had traveled from California), had to tell them that it was for their anniversary. They thought they didn't have to have a party since they were gone, and that we would have forgotten about it....funny, funny mom and dad.

My cute parents at the party.
My parents at about age 14. I just came across these dating pictures a couple months ago - I LOVE them!

This is the only picture I have of the temple that day we all went. We were in a hurry to get to the party, so we skipped the picture at the temple. BUMMER...me and my picture-taking obsession. I really wish we had a picture of all of us there.
My parents and all 8 kids and our spouses. With this size of family, it's kinda rare to get us all together - but this was a special occasion that no one wanted to miss. My parents are pretty special people that we all wanted to be there to honor.


The following pictures are some of the decorations we had set up. The one directly below is hard to tell what it is - but it turned out really cute. It is a "family tree". It was tree branches that were spray painted black, and we had gold clips holding random black and white pictures of us kids as babies and throughout the years and also family pictures throughout the years.


My moms wedding dress.

For entertainment - we kids (when I say kids, I mean in-law kids too) - had put a small item in a bag which represented a special memory we had with our parents. Then they had to guess whose memory the item represented. Some of the memories shared had us laughing uncontrollably.
It was such a fun night, and I hope my parents enjoyed it.

I am grateful for parents who stayed committed to each other and to their family through the years. For parents who showed us through example how to love. For parents who serve others. For parents who taught us right from wrong. For parents who love the Lord and the Gospel of Jesus Christ.