We May Not Have It All Together...But Together We Have It All: RE-FUELED

Sunday, March 1, 2009

RE-FUELED

Today was Stake Conference at church. I love stake conference for several reasons. I love being spiritually fed, and I love having Ira sit with our family when he is usually sitting on the stand helplessly watching as I try to single-handedly keep our four kids under control (usually failing miserably). I shouldn't say single-handedly, so many in our ward help me with Jarin. Anyways, today I sat down next to Ira, who was sitting next to his counselor in the Bishopbric (who does not have small children at home anymore). Ira took Kamden, and Jarin went straight to Brother Douglas. I sat there empty armed for the first time in a long time. I got to listen to the messages, and I got to feel the spirit of what was being taught. I know, it may sound like such a simple thing, but it was a re-fueling experience for me. Then to top it off, I look to my side (where these two great men were taking care of my two great children who just don't like to sit still), and they each had them sitting on their laps - one asleep and the other being very reverent. So what did I do?...I CRIED with a big smile on my face! I was so happy to have the help, and to see these men taking such good care of our little ones, and to get the opportunity to "feast on the words of God." So today, I have a new resolve to be a better mom and wife and work on the important things in life - my family. All because I had the opportunity to get to listen. I love days like today, no matter how few and far between they may be!

4 comments:

FAMILY FAMILY FAMILY said...: Best enjoy it now, because by Monday when the kids get out of school, it'll be gone! Gotta love it.; March 2, 2009 at 8:18 AM
shaley said...: I'm glad you got to listen and enjoy stake conf. I felt refueled too as I left. I loved Pres. Poulsen's talk....I felt like it couldn't have been more appropriate and was exactly what we needed to hear!; March 2, 2009 at 10:47 AM
Calie said...: I love days like that too. I actually got to hold my friends baby at church yesturday and I was thinking to myself how did I get to this point so fast. I thought I would always be holding one of my kids and fighting with them to hold still. They grow so fast. Now my kids are holding others too. They are all old enough to keep others entertained. When did that time get here?; March 2, 2009 at 1:58 PM
Davis Family said...: Conference was very good and I always enjoy the Saturday night session. It was nice to have the rest of the day to be together as a family just hanging out and playing games. I'm happy for you that you got to have your husband there sitting by you. I think you should hire Brother Douglass as your nanny. He was doing a very good job with Jarin. Lunch was fun. Lets do it again sometime.; March 3, 2009 at 10:17 PM

Kute Komments!

Jarin: "I've been waiting all day for Kamden to grow up...when will he grow up like me?"
4-2010

We were driving by a farm which was being fertilized. Jarin sniffs a big sniff and says, "Mmmm...that smells like my strawberry nose" (the strawberry nose was a yummy smelling gas mask from the dentist)!
Jarin: "Is is "fat man or bat man"?
Jarin "My heart is dirty and needs to be cleaned." Then I wash his face, and he says, "My heart is clean!" (He watched me put lipstick on once, and thought my top lips looked like hearts. Now he thinks that lips are hearts). Which makes me wonder what he thinks when he says, "The Holy Ghost makes our heart feel good."
Jarin asked with a great big smile that melts my heart, "Mom, are you being grumpy with me?" (yes, I was - but that started us both laughing instead!)
We were having a family home evening helping Emilie to prepare for baptism. We talked to her about making good choices and right vs. wrong. We were trying to prompt her to give an answer when Ira asked her, "What's opposite of right, (he asked it in the context of right choices), and she answered, "Left." (you should have seen the look Ira and I gave each other - it spoke volumes!)
Same family home evening... we were talking about the Holy Ghost. Jarin (being very tired and very sensitive at the moment anyways), started going balistic on us. Not only did he say he was scared of the Holy Ghost. And not only was he crying because he was scared, but he was SOBBING, and it continued for about an hour (which is when he fell asleep still crying)!! Then first thing out of his mouth when he woke up was that he was scared of the Holy Ghost! We think we are doing the right thing by teaching our children, but really - we have taumatized Jarin! I can only imagine what was going on in his little imagination. Did I mention that FHE finished earlier than planned?
Ira was feeling the baby move at a particularly active time. He said, "Is he moving furniture around in there?" (some days it sure feels like it!)
There was a baby being blessed in church Sunday, and Jarin saw the priesthood men in a circle, and loudly proclaims "Look mom, their playing ring around the rosies!"
Emilie asked me, "Since our eyes are blue, how come everything doesn't look blue to us?" I explained how we see through the black circle in our eyes. She said, "Then the blue is just for decoration?"
Jarin walks around the house constantly saying, and singing "I am a Child of God, and He has sent me here." And when anyones voices get too loud, he sings, "Love at home... Love at home..." I'm not sure he even knows the meaning of what he's singing, but it stops the contention and usually starts a few giggles.
Ira was talking about leap year, and Emilie asked, "What is leap year? Is it when we leap to school?"
Ira asked Emilie if you put plastic wrap or foil over a pan going in the oven. She said tinfoil. Ira said "Good thinking Emilie." She responded by saying, "No, I didn't think...my teacher told me." (thank goodness for teachers, so we don't have to think!)
Jarin asked me if he could have something, and I had told him no. He responded by asking again, then answering his own question as if he were me, "Of course you can sweetheart." (it's no wonder he gets whatever he wants - how cute is that?)
In church today, a half a second before the sacrament prayer was being said, (so it was very quiet in the room), Jarin observed that his dad was sitting on the stand, and calls out in his loudest voice, "That's my daddy up there!"
Brayden said, "I've learned to never mess with a pregnant person."
Today I told Jarin he was a sweetHEART, and he said, "No, I have a beautiful HEART, and mommy is beautiful too." (a comment like that, he can have whatever he wants!)
This one was said a year or so ago, but it was one of the best we've had ever - so it bears repeating! Emilie said to mom, "Someday I am going to marry my prince, just like you married your prince."
Jarin said, "We don't say 'monkey butt' do we?"
Jarin see's a bumble bee and says, "It's a bum-bum bee".
Emilie singing, "Loose, footloose, kick off my church shoes."

Hmmmmm...

I copied this from my sisters blog, but it's just too perfectly perfect to not be reminded of as often as possible!

Hmmmm....
There once was a woman who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror, and noticed she had only three hairs on her head.'Well,' she said, 'I think I'll braid my hair today!'So she did, and she had a wonderful day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and saw that she had only two hairs on her head.'H-M-M,' she said, 'I think I'll part my hair down the middle today!'So she did and she had a grand day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that she had only one hair on her head.'Well,' she said, 'today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail.'So she did and she had a fun, fun day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that there wasn't a single hair on her head.'YEA!' she exclaimed, 'I don't have to fix my hair today!'Attitude is everything. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

INSPIRATION

"A religion that does not require the sacrifice of all things never has power sufficient to produce the faith necessary unto life and salvation." Joseph Smith

"The things you do for yourself are gone when you are gone. The things you do for others remain as your legacy."

"Fix it up...wear it out... make due...or do without!" - Gordon B Hinckley

"In righteousness there is great simplicity" - William R. Bradford

"The most important thing parents can do for their children is to teach them to feel The Spirit and recognize when it is no longer with them."

Elder M. Russell Ballard: "There is no one perfect way to be a good mother. Each situation is unique. Each mother has different challenges, different skills and abilities, and certainly different children...What matters is that a mother loves her children deeply and, in keeping with the devotion she has for God and her husband, prioritizes them above all else."

The adversary would keep us busily engaged in a multitude of trivial things in an effort to keep us distracted from the few vital things that make all the difference."-Ardeth G. Kapp