We May Not Have It All Together...But Together We Have It All: The Good...The Bad...& The Ugly

Thursday, August 20, 2009

The Good...The Bad...& The Ugly

I'm going to catagorize school starting today as good, bad & ugly.

Let's start with the good - it's a good thing to start off on the right foot, right?

So the GOOD things of school starting is:

*routine, routine, routine (can't say this one enough)

*End of constant arguing with me and with each other

*End of "Can I have a popsicle?" "Can I have a friend over?" and "Can I get wet" (sprinklers), and my personal favorite, cuz I give them something (jobs) to do when I hear: "I'm bored" (24/7)

*Brayden said "Now you will have to do more work, cuz we're not here to do it all for you!" HAHAHAHA - That was REALLY funny! It is true that I really like their help cleaning up. However, there's not AS MUCH to clean up when said children are gone all day (hmmm...wonder why that is? I'm not good at math, but I can put 2 and 2 together for that one! DUH!!!)

*No more late nights - that means I might have a quiet moment to myself after everyones gone to bed, BEFORE I collapse of exhaustion. (As is, I collapse when they do which means no quiet time for me)

Bad:

*My babysitting son is gone - now what do I do when I have to go somewhere? Take them with me you say? Are you kidding me???

*Spending money on school clothes (this should technically go under "ugly", but my kids think it is "good", so a compromise is "bad").

*Back to Brayden's comment about jobs - I will miss when they get into trouble, and their consequences are an "extra" job (deep cleaning task). I like it when they get in trouble around here - I'm such a mean mom! ;0)

*School is starting TOO early!!

*Jarin & Kamden will really miss their play mates - which means that I will really miss their playmates too (cuz now it will be ME doing the entertaining).

*I really LIKE having my kids around in the summer, and doing all the fun summer activities together - I will really miss that (OK, let's be honest - I will SORT OF miss them)

Ugly:

*Homework - it is a constant source of contention at our home with one of our children (it would be rude to mention HIS name, or what almost teenage year HE is approaching, cuz then you'd know which child I'm talking about - so I won't be so rude! :) )

*Goodbye warm weather

*Not many more Bear Lake or Camping or 4-wheeling days left this year

*Goodbye lazy daze of summer - I will miss you! Next time you visit, stay a little longer.

Emi & I

Our farewell to summer activity. We went to First Dam in Logan, and played in the water and fed the ducks.

Brayden & Jarin

Emi feeding the ducks bread...Kamden ate the duck food before we could feed the ducks!

Emi & Kam

Brayden & Jarin

First Day of School

5 comments:

Mark and Adrian said...: How fun!!!! I cannot wait for my kids to start. Your kids looked great. I loved this post.; August 20, 2009 at 4:33 PM
Kent and Kathy Moser said...: Your kids can never say they had a boring summer!; August 20, 2009 at 4:49 PM
FAMILY FAMILY FAMILY said...: You're not good at math??? Who knew?!

I'm kinda nervous about school starting, because then it'll just be Des and I. And right now, he follows me around the house, wanting to be held. Yesterday, I stepped on him more than once. Poor little guy.
And mom-kids will ALWAYS say they had a boring summer, no matter what we do! Your kids never did that though, did they?; August 21, 2009 at 8:50 AM
Maria said...: Yay for routine!
Cute pics!; August 22, 2009 at 2:47 PM
Drapers said...: My kids have been in school for a full two weeks and I agree the house does stay cleaner!! It has been so nice to be on a routine again.:); August 23, 2009 at 8:28 PM

Kute Komments!

Jarin: "I've been waiting all day for Kamden to grow up...when will he grow up like me?"
4-2010

We were driving by a farm which was being fertilized. Jarin sniffs a big sniff and says, "Mmmm...that smells like my strawberry nose" (the strawberry nose was a yummy smelling gas mask from the dentist)!
Jarin: "Is is "fat man or bat man"?
Jarin "My heart is dirty and needs to be cleaned." Then I wash his face, and he says, "My heart is clean!" (He watched me put lipstick on once, and thought my top lips looked like hearts. Now he thinks that lips are hearts). Which makes me wonder what he thinks when he says, "The Holy Ghost makes our heart feel good."
Jarin asked with a great big smile that melts my heart, "Mom, are you being grumpy with me?" (yes, I was - but that started us both laughing instead!)
We were having a family home evening helping Emilie to prepare for baptism. We talked to her about making good choices and right vs. wrong. We were trying to prompt her to give an answer when Ira asked her, "What's opposite of right, (he asked it in the context of right choices), and she answered, "Left." (you should have seen the look Ira and I gave each other - it spoke volumes!)
Same family home evening... we were talking about the Holy Ghost. Jarin (being very tired and very sensitive at the moment anyways), started going balistic on us. Not only did he say he was scared of the Holy Ghost. And not only was he crying because he was scared, but he was SOBBING, and it continued for about an hour (which is when he fell asleep still crying)!! Then first thing out of his mouth when he woke up was that he was scared of the Holy Ghost! We think we are doing the right thing by teaching our children, but really - we have taumatized Jarin! I can only imagine what was going on in his little imagination. Did I mention that FHE finished earlier than planned?
Ira was feeling the baby move at a particularly active time. He said, "Is he moving furniture around in there?" (some days it sure feels like it!)
There was a baby being blessed in church Sunday, and Jarin saw the priesthood men in a circle, and loudly proclaims "Look mom, their playing ring around the rosies!"
Emilie asked me, "Since our eyes are blue, how come everything doesn't look blue to us?" I explained how we see through the black circle in our eyes. She said, "Then the blue is just for decoration?"
Jarin walks around the house constantly saying, and singing "I am a Child of God, and He has sent me here." And when anyones voices get too loud, he sings, "Love at home... Love at home..." I'm not sure he even knows the meaning of what he's singing, but it stops the contention and usually starts a few giggles.
Ira was talking about leap year, and Emilie asked, "What is leap year? Is it when we leap to school?"
Ira asked Emilie if you put plastic wrap or foil over a pan going in the oven. She said tinfoil. Ira said "Good thinking Emilie." She responded by saying, "No, I didn't think...my teacher told me." (thank goodness for teachers, so we don't have to think!)
Jarin asked me if he could have something, and I had told him no. He responded by asking again, then answering his own question as if he were me, "Of course you can sweetheart." (it's no wonder he gets whatever he wants - how cute is that?)
In church today, a half a second before the sacrament prayer was being said, (so it was very quiet in the room), Jarin observed that his dad was sitting on the stand, and calls out in his loudest voice, "That's my daddy up there!"
Brayden said, "I've learned to never mess with a pregnant person."
Today I told Jarin he was a sweetHEART, and he said, "No, I have a beautiful HEART, and mommy is beautiful too." (a comment like that, he can have whatever he wants!)
This one was said a year or so ago, but it was one of the best we've had ever - so it bears repeating! Emilie said to mom, "Someday I am going to marry my prince, just like you married your prince."
Jarin said, "We don't say 'monkey butt' do we?"
Jarin see's a bumble bee and says, "It's a bum-bum bee".
Emilie singing, "Loose, footloose, kick off my church shoes."

Hmmmmm...

I copied this from my sisters blog, but it's just too perfectly perfect to not be reminded of as often as possible!

Hmmmm....
There once was a woman who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror, and noticed she had only three hairs on her head.'Well,' she said, 'I think I'll braid my hair today!'So she did, and she had a wonderful day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and saw that she had only two hairs on her head.'H-M-M,' she said, 'I think I'll part my hair down the middle today!'So she did and she had a grand day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that she had only one hair on her head.'Well,' she said, 'today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail.'So she did and she had a fun, fun day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that there wasn't a single hair on her head.'YEA!' she exclaimed, 'I don't have to fix my hair today!'Attitude is everything. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

INSPIRATION

"A religion that does not require the sacrifice of all things never has power sufficient to produce the faith necessary unto life and salvation." Joseph Smith

"The things you do for yourself are gone when you are gone. The things you do for others remain as your legacy."

"Fix it up...wear it out... make due...or do without!" - Gordon B Hinckley

"In righteousness there is great simplicity" - William R. Bradford

"The most important thing parents can do for their children is to teach them to feel The Spirit and recognize when it is no longer with them."

Elder M. Russell Ballard: "There is no one perfect way to be a good mother. Each situation is unique. Each mother has different challenges, different skills and abilities, and certainly different children...What matters is that a mother loves her children deeply and, in keeping with the devotion she has for God and her husband, prioritizes them above all else."

The adversary would keep us busily engaged in a multitude of trivial things in an effort to keep us distracted from the few vital things that make all the difference."-Ardeth G. Kapp